Today I got this comment "I find myself grieving with every woman who is introduced to motherhood in traumatic ways". She was speaking in regards to c sections...
C sections should not be viewed as negative. For the safety of mom and babies, it is often necessary for multiples. Jerri, you are a strong woman. You can do this. You, Mike and your family will make this experience as beautiful as possible.
I agree c-sections should not be viewed as negative. We chose to have a c-section for when Lilly was born. And while some may say that we "chose" her birthday and that was unfair, all they had to say to us was that it increased the chance of a live birth and we jumped aboard. I am not one to opt for surgery as I've only had one other in my life and am TERRIFIED. I think c-section/vaginal its all PERSONAL choice and some don't even get to choose, some have to have c-sections.
My name is Jerri, wife to Mike, and momma to be to 3 special spirits, through the assistance of technology(IVF) . Mathew Aidan, Lillith Aaliyah Samara, and Asher Quinn. At 15 wks we were told Asher has a neural tube defect called Anencephaly. We are told Asher won't survive, that if we are lucky we could have him a few days, but its unlikely. I praise God for the miracle of these three, and I will accept any time that we are allowed to have Asher with us.
C sections should not be viewed as negative. For the safety of mom and babies, it is often necessary for multiples. Jerri, you are a strong woman. You can do this. You, Mike and your family will make this experience as beautiful as possible.
ReplyDeleteKim aka butter
I agree c-sections should not be viewed as negative. We chose to have a c-section for when Lilly was born. And while some may say that we "chose" her birthday and that was unfair, all they had to say to us was that it increased the chance of a live birth and we jumped aboard. I am not one to opt for surgery as I've only had one other in my life and am TERRIFIED. I think c-section/vaginal its all PERSONAL choice and some don't even get to choose, some have to have c-sections.
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